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These 7 conversation topics and example scripts are designed to help you navigate emotionally charged money conversations with confidence.

→ Remember for each script, it helps to have the overall conversation to be heading in that direction.

E.g. for bringing up student debt in the second section below, maybe you’re talking about university, or it’s payday and you’re feeling frustrated at the student finance repayment on your payslip.

Any script will feel off if it’s brought up without context, so think of ways to build this up beforehand.

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Figuring out someone’s money mindset

When to use it: Early dating stage when you want to get a sense of someone’s money mindset

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Contextual cues to build up:

• people winning crazy prizes
• finding money in surprising locations
• guilty pleasures </aside>

"I actually know someone who won 50k on a scratch card! What would you do if that happened to you? The first thing I’d do is….”

“My guilty pleasure on TikTok are these financial influencers. They literally document what they do on payday. I’ve never been able to talk about money because… what do you think?”

Touching on debt

When to use it: You’re becoming serious and want to talk financial transparency, you’re exclusive

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Contextual cues to build up:

• You see or scroll past a “millennial debt confession” video or tweet (you could do this on purpose)
• You’re talking about university, moving, or past financial struggles
• You’re both talking about adulting, growing older, someone’s birthday/wedding/baby coming up reminds you of getting older </aside>

This might sound intense, but I’ve been trying to be way more honest about money as I’m getting older/adulting more… I’ve still got some student debt I’m working through. Do you have anything like that you’re dealing with?

Is it just me or does everyone have secret debt? I feel like everything is so expensive but everyone seems fine on the outside.

Aligning on future goals